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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 08:10

How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What I need from you?

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Does not procrastinate.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why do atheists not love a G-d that does not stop punishing them harder and harder in this world and the next until they surrender to Him?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why doesn’t the UK change their flag?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I committed the unpardonable sin. God immediately punished me so that I can no longer think like before and my brain is as if paralyzed and does not work. I've tried everything (confession, repentance, etc.) nothing helps. Any advice?

Ask yourself:

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Which job has the potential to become rich easily?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why cant I sleep? When I'm about to fall asleep, I get excited that im about to sleep, causing me to wake up again. It repeats till my sleepiness is gone. I tried taking melatonin and not using my phone, but I end upawake for hours.

Making more friends is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is there a way to use men’s hair gel that doesn’t make your hair dry and crunchy?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.